tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816776549535168620.post2599144834617136854..comments2022-11-17T04:48:42.746-05:00Comments on A garden for butterflies: AnnaBellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01614241329182982677noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816776549535168620.post-40265471915389623392012-02-01T21:42:23.320-05:002012-02-01T21:42:23.320-05:00People just never think before they speak. It is y...People just never think before they speak. It is yet for me to understand why everyone automatically thinks that not having children would be synonymous with not wanting any. I think you're strong for getting up and walking away from conversations that hurt you, but I'm sorry that you should have to do so in the first place.<br />Following now; Please feel free to <a href="areasontostayalive.blogspot.com" rel="nofollow">follow back</a> if you want to.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816776549535168620.post-88670625265240406732012-01-31T13:39:15.342-05:002012-01-31T13:39:15.342-05:00people really can be thoughtless. i'm sorry i...people really can be thoughtless. i'm sorry it happens so often but you do deal with it well, as much as i wish you didn't have to.Rebahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16739267142330427759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816776549535168620.post-91007373398873811822012-01-31T13:15:22.896-05:002012-01-31T13:15:22.896-05:00Ugh, people are just so clueless! I'm sorry yo...Ugh, people are just so clueless! I'm sorry you had all of that piled on you. <br /><br />Someone asked me yesterday if I had kids and I said "Not yet," and he said, "Wait! Sleep while you can." Okaaaaaay.Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00668661473260475342noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816776549535168620.post-90341908707684383952012-01-31T10:26:25.974-05:002012-01-31T10:26:25.974-05:00I think you dealt really well with both situations...I think you dealt really well with both situations and I'm sorry you were driven to tears.<br /><br />And hooray for people who go out of their way to make you smile!<br /><br />Hugs<br /><br />xxxBarbarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01484695553612265127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816776549535168620.post-70688282293202074872012-01-31T06:59:44.377-05:002012-01-31T06:59:44.377-05:00:( Big hugs. NOthing much to add except urgh to...:( Big hugs. NOthing much to add except urgh to the girls working nearby... just urgh...<br /><br />And the salad bar guy sounds very sweet. Smiles for him.<br /><br />Good on you for not letting your friend ruin the night for both of you. You both handled that well.<br /><br />xxSophiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17663682329663202706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816776549535168620.post-24101240822815246032012-01-30T21:39:49.923-05:002012-01-30T21:39:49.923-05:00{{{Hugs}}} Anne-Marie. I'm so sorry you had to...{{{Hugs}}} Anne-Marie. I'm so sorry you had to deal with both those situations.Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10791317184998122691noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-816776549535168620.post-13964714050986996702012-01-30T21:03:21.614-05:002012-01-30T21:03:21.614-05:00Uck. I'm so sorry. I think you handled both ...Uck. I'm so sorry. I think you handled both of those situations very well. I can imagine, honestly, being your friend in the first one and realizing what a thoughtless thing I had said. <br /><br />I saw somewhere recently (on a blog?) the suggestion that now that "Don't ask, don't tell" had been (appropriately) retired from its original purpose, it might be reassigned to better use in the workplace when it comes to family-building plans. Too bad that will never happen.Alexicographerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06029216139568740202noreply@blogger.com