You know, one of the biggest roadblocks I have to getting an official divorce is that I don't know what to do about my last name. My degrees have my married last name and I'm really proud of earning those...
Fuck, along with the huge issues of divorce, like heartache, there are so many emotionally charged little things that require decisions.
And you want to hear a confession? I think part of the reason why bill paying has not been a priority is because I wanted his credit to be ruined and I didn't care about mine. Now I am caring about mine more. It's shameful, but I want to hurt him.
This time two years ago I was madly in love! Now, love is not a predominant emotion for me (it is getting better though!).
After everything that has happened in the last 2 years I don't know what my name is. Any suggestions?